" Love from one side hurts, but love from two sides heals."

Friday, August 26, 2011

"FAIL, FAIL AGAIN, FAIL BETTER." - Samuel Beckett

THE PERSON WHO DOESN'T MAKE MISTAKES IS UNLIKELY TO MAKE ANYTHING!
("If you can't save a problem, it's because you're playing by the rules!")

Benjamin Franklin said, "I haven't failed, I've had 10,000 ideas that didn't work."

Thomas Edison said, " Of the 200 light bulbs that didn't work, every failure told me something that I was able to incorporate into the next attempt."

Theatre director Joan Littlewood said, "If we don't get lost, we'll never find a new route."

All of them understood that failures and false starts are a precondition of success.
Failure is a major contributor to success.

BEING right is based upon knowledge and experience and is often provable. Knowledge comes from the past, so it's safe. It is also out of date. It's the opposite of originality. Experience is the opposite of being creative. Being right is also being boring. Your mind is closed. You are not open to new ideas. You are rooted in your own rightness, which is arrogant. Arrogance is a valuable tool, but only if used very sparingly. So: it's wrong to be right, because people who are right are rooted in the past, rigid-minded, dull and smug.

IT IS RIGHT TO BE WRONG!

START being wrong and suddenly anything is possible. You are in the unknown. There's no way of knowing what can happen, but there's more chance of it being amazing that if you try to be right. Of course, being wrong is a risk. People worry about suggesting stupid ideas because of what others will think. You will have been in meetings where new thinking has been called for, at your original suggestion. Risks are a measure of people. People who won't take them are trying to preserve what they have. People who do take them often end up by having more. Being wrong isn't in the future, or in the past. Being wrong isn't anywhere but being here.

Your vision of where or who you want to be is the greatest asset you have.

Thursday, August 25, 2011

shooting stars


My life?
It’s a mess.

I often think about what could have happened if I chose another way to walk along. Maybe I should have chosen ways that were not covered with huge rocks and stones that I have to climb over.
Maybe I should have chosen a way that was easier to go along.
Maybe I should have thought different when I was younger.
Maybe I should have tried…I should have tried to face my problems and I should not have pretended not to have them.
Maybe….I should not use the word maybe because actually, it makes everything worse. 

Well, probably there are many people who have the same thoughts like me. The most of them don't like to talk about their feelings because many just want to keep secrets and others just are ashamed of themselves. I have lots of thoughts about life and death and I always think about "WHAT IF?" I think it's time to talk about it and I want to share my thoughts with you. I want to share my feelings and I want to let you know what I think about this life here.
How often do we think "It's time to change my life and myself and t do better!" How often do think about ourselves and how often do we think we are not good enough and we just want to be different than others. Every person is influenced by others. And this person probably is extremely influenced by those so he or she doesn't even know what she truly loves in life because this person just wants others to like her or him. It's hard to go our own way in this world. We all are affected by material possessions and we all want to be successful in life and have a good payed job and we we want to live in a huge flat with nice, expensive furniture. We have forgot what's truly important in life. We actually have forgot what we really want and why we do live. We have forgot who we are and we don't know which way to go because others rule our lives already. We are influenced by those who want prosperity and beauty.   

If you have encountered obstacles in your life you may understand. I do not talk about little problems but big ones. I talk about having experiences which change you life. I did have experiences which changed my life..but in a bad way. I am waiting for a miracle which finally wakes me up in this world. I am kind of asleep and I feel like I am missing a lot of things here. I am waiting for shooting stars so I can make a wish. 

The thing is, we all want a change in our own lives. Most of us don't want to live like they do right now. But I don't know how we finally can break out from this disgusting cage we are locked in. It's hard to get the strength for this. Words can't do this for us. We really need to wake up because how it is right now we can't continue this. There must be a change otherwise this world will fall apart.